Jane Pinckard has written a new entry on Game Girl Advance about what she finds sexy about male characters in video games.
It has some interesting comments, and references an earlier entry about something approaching romantic entanglements in BioWare's Knights of the Old Republic, aka KOTOR. I am currently playing KOTOR myself, but a description of my experiences in that game has to go into it's own post.
Finally, that earlier entry links to a GameSpy article about The Book of Erotic Fantasy, a d20 supplement (i.e. additional material for the game simulation system underlying the 3rd edition of Advanced Dungeons & Dragons, the world's most popular pen & paper role-playing system) that contains rules for sex, love, marriage, conception, etc.
I tried to continue writing twice, but each time I was overwhelmed by passion and wrote massive rants, that, in the end, had nothing to do with the original topic any more. So, in the interest of consistency of subject matter, I will present these as entries of their own. Once I've calmed down.